Experience of Life

They say that there is one day when every person would feel nervous, excited, have cold feet and many more things at the same time. This did happen to me on a day prior to my wedding day. I had been waiting for my wedding day for almost two years, planned the entire thing for six months. Preparation time was the most exciting phase and extremely stressful at the same time. It involved things like deciding the venue, menu, flowers, clothing, jewelry, wedding card design, list of guests, makeup person, photographer, video recording person, wedding website design, henna tattoo design, henna design artist, the stage decoration etc. Making all these decisions were so much fun and equally challenging. This could as well be the most challenging planning anyone could do in their lives. Just couple of days before, there were loads of thoughts about the entire event like how would I look, if things would go as planned, if there would be any obstacles etc. What surprised me was on the actual day, none of thoughts came to my mind. The only thing that mattered on that day was my partner and the happiness of finally being one. Things like how I looked, how my pictures came, who all had come to the wedding and all other thoughts had disappeared from my brain. The experience of getting married was totally different than I had expected. It was like the whole world had come to a still and it was just him and myself who moved. We were the only two in that moment, everything around us were grayed out. I was the happiest that day and I could not help but smile all the while. The feeling of holding hands and deciding to spend the rest of lives together among-st the ups and downs of life can only be felt and not explained.

I would say, that getting married is an experience not to be missed and cannot be matched to any other experience.